Reviving sex in marriage: tips and advice for younger and older couples
Marital stereotyping is the killer of any healthy sex life. What can you do to ensure that even after years of cohabitation, you still find a stimulus that helps you stay precious and attractive?
For the times when it's impossible to experience sex
Many couples have resigned themselves to the fact that some days are just not conducive to playing together. When you pour each other pure wine, you can understand each other better and much more truly love each other without prejudice. The revival of sex in a marriage is closely related to psychology. Giving your partner pleasure even on days when you don't feel like it or have the opportunity to do so yourself is a given in a healthy relationship. But how do couples actually deal with this?
He who plays doesn't get angry
It is not uncommon for partners who are in a healthy relationship to buy each other gadgets and sex toys that allow them to achieve pleasurable moments without the partners resorting to infidelity. As the saying goes, he who plays does not get angry. That's why there are various womanizers and dildos for ladies or interesting gadgets for gentlemen. Recently, however, there has been a complete sexual revolution that has surpassed anything that has been known before. What is it?
Realistic replacement
There are, in fact, totally realistic sex aids in the world - sex dolls. At first glance, you can't tell that it's not a real person. Classic dolls or dolls not only have a realistic appearance, but are also made of materials that feel like human skin. Their internal joints are comparable to human joints. You can then have a doll or dummy completely to your liking - including the colour of the eyes or the size of the breasts or the genitals. You can also choose what kind of figure your gadget will have.
Not just for young couples
Yet these realistic dolls are not only used by young couples who are used to openness and sexual honesty, but also by older partners who wish to work on reviving sex in their marriage. Indulging a partner in a completely innocent pastime that brings them pleasure is thus becoming a very common part of a healthy and functioning relationship. We all know very well that not all days we are at full strength and in the mood for bed play. Realistic aids then become quite welcome for both parties.
A taste of experiencing something unconventional
Separation from a partner, or momentary sexual dysfunction, then turns into a normal part of life during which the sexual health of the partner is not compromised in any way. Some couples then push the bar even further and experience shared bliss when these realistic erotic toys for couples appear in the bedroom in the presence of both spouses. The unconventional experiences and innocent pushing of shared boundaries is then a very stimulating healthy element of any adult relationship.
Don't rest on your laurels
In times when partner life is becoming a stereotype, couples should reflect and take an active interest in each other's needs together.Talking openly about a ticklish topic is in itself very exciting. You may find that you have similar desires but have been afraid to say them out loud. Moments together can turn into a rediscovery of partner love. Mutual tickling gifts and small attentions will help you not to rest on your laurels and keep finding new possibilities.
Go with your skin on the market
Sooner or later, your desires will catch up with you. The sooner you are able to talk about them as a couple, the better you will be able to realize them. Do you love making love in an aquatic environment? Or do you crave adventure in a place open to the public? Don't be afraid to stand up for your desires and ask your counterpart regularly as well. You'll avoid your partner feeling boring and dull. Suddenly, you will wish to fulfill his wishes as well.
A healthy sexual relationship should always be spiced up with new stimuli. Discuss your desires together and agree on what to get.
Marital stereotyping is the killer of any healthy sex life. What can you do to ensure that even after years of cohabitation, you still find a stimulus that helps you stay precious and attractive?
For the times when it's impossible to experience sex
Many couples have resigned themselves to the fact that some days are just not conducive to playing together. When you pour each other pure wine, you can understand each other better and much more truly love each other without prejudice. The revival of sex in a marriage is closely related to psychology. Giving your partner pleasure even on days when you don't feel like it or have the opportunity to do so yourself is a given in a healthy relationship. But how do couples actually deal with this?
He who plays doesn't get angry
It is not uncommon for partners who are in a healthy relationship to buy each other gadgets and sex toys that allow them to achieve pleasurable moments without the partners resorting to infidelity. As the saying goes, he who plays does not get angry. That's why there are various womanizers and dildos for ladies or interesting gadgets for gentlemen. Recently, however, there has been a complete sexual revolution that has surpassed anything that has been known before. What is it?
Realistic replacement
There are, in fact, totally realistic sex aids in the world - sex dolls. At first glance, you can't tell that it's not a real person. Classic dolls or dolls not only have a realistic appearance, but are also made of materials that feel like human skin. Their internal joints are comparable to human joints. You can then have a doll or dummy completely to your liking - including the colour of the eyes or the size of the breasts or the genitals. You can also choose what kind of figure your gadget will have.
Not just for young couples
Yet these realistic dolls are not only used by young couples who are used to openness and sexual honesty, but also by older partners who wish to work on reviving sex in their marriage. Indulging a partner in a completely innocent pastime that brings them pleasure is thus becoming a very common part of a healthy and functioning relationship. We all know very well that not all days we are at full strength and in the mood for bed play. Realistic aids then become quite welcome for both parties.
A taste of experiencing something unconventional
Separation from a partner, or momentary sexual dysfunction, then turns into a normal part of life during which the sexual health of the partner is not compromised in any way. Some couples then push the bar even further and experience shared bliss when these realistic erotic toys for couples appear in the bedroom in the presence of both spouses. The unconventional experiences and innocent pushing of shared boundaries is then a very stimulating healthy element of any adult relationship.
Don't rest on your laurels
In times when partner life is becoming a stereotype, couples should reflect and take an active interest in each other's needs together.Talking openly about a ticklish topic is in itself very exciting. You may find that you have similar desires but have been afraid to say them out loud. Moments together can turn into a rediscovery of partner love. Mutual tickling gifts and small attentions will help you not to rest on your laurels and keep finding new possibilities.
Go with your skin on the market
Sooner or later, your desires will catch up with you. The sooner you are able to talk about them as a couple, the better you will be able to realize them. Do you love making love in an aquatic environment? Or do you crave adventure in a place open to the public? Don't be afraid to stand up for your desires and ask your counterpart regularly as well. You'll avoid your partner feeling boring and dull. Suddenly, you will wish to fulfill his wishes as well.
A healthy sexual relationship should always be spiced up with new stimuli. Discuss your desires together and agree on what to get.